I get home from my cross country trip visiting daughter and grandbabies
and we catch up on what is happening
with the people and marriages that we are trying to help patch up
in this crazy ministry life we live
We have been married three plus decades
but we talk about how we need to diligently guard and rekindle
the flame of our love for Him and for each other
So on a rainy, weekday afternoon
I am a playful, young temptress
Who has some unexpectedly free hours
Due to a meeting cancellation
And I go into his office
And tempt him to play hooky with me
Just for a couple of hours
Because the work will still be here when we get back
In the car ride together
His mind is still distracted by what he left undone
But halfway through our meal of lamb gyros and stuffed grape leaves
I see the the change in his countenance when he lays the burdens down
and now he is fully there with me
We are two young things without a care in the world
We hold hands and grab a cup of hot Starbucks
We stop at Whole Foods and have one cookie each
Deceiving ourselves that they are healthy because we bought them there
The Oregon sky is gray and the rain is coming down heavy on the car ride back home
But my heart is burning warm and happy beside him
I’m thankful for the gift of time we gave each other
Just a couple of hours spent guarding and rekindling the flame
When we get home, he has to work to make up for those hours
But when we lay our heads on our pillows that night
I snuggle into his warmth as we cuddle
underneath the quilt his grandma made for us
all those decades ago
and we both go to sleep smiling
Still following,
Elizabeth
happily linking here-
this week’s Simple Pleasure is time spent with my husband
Thank you for reminding me not to take my husband for granted...
ReplyDeleteOh, you little temptress, you--I love it that you and hubby got to rekindle!
ReplyDeleteBTW, I posted a pic of your beautiful Oregon coastline on my blog today--the ONLY time I've ever been there. I had to jump a fence to get the picture unobstructed but it was more than worth it. If I ever get to come again, I'm hoping that I get to meet up with you, sweet friend.
Loving you,
Dianne
I hung on even past the word "temptress", put I closed one eye to read further... Just kidding. This is a great GREAT post. It makes me like you all the more in reading it.
ReplyDeleteAnd time spent with my husband ranks up there as one of my ultimate simple pleasures, too!
keeping the fire burning - takes time and work just exactly what you did!!!!
ReplyDeleteLove it! So important.
ReplyDeleteThis is wonderful Elizabeth! "We both go to sleep smiling" - says it all really :-) How blessed you are! love..Trish
ReplyDeletethis is so important in a marriage...so very important...thanks for sharing your time with us...keep smiling.
ReplyDeleteSo very lovely.
ReplyDeleteHugs. Dottie
God had chosen you to share your gift of marriage with others. We all could take away something from this post.
ReplyDeleteIt is sometimes so hard to lay down the burdens -- the demands, the timelines, the kids. But this post makes me realize the true importance of spending time, truly together.
ReplyDeleterekindling and guarding flames...such truth!
ReplyDeleteThank you for your example of lasting love and the effort it requires!
... so very important to remember.
ReplyDeleteBut my heart is burning warm and happy beside him
ReplyDeleteI’m thankful for the gift of time we gave each other
Just a couple of hours spent guarding and rekindling the flame
wonderful! thank you for sharing :)
So happy you had special moments with your forever love. That was, indeed, a great simple pleasure. Susan
ReplyDeleteElizabeth,
ReplyDeleteWhat a wonderful and inspiring post! A great reminder for me, as I often let the duties and the exhaustion frame too much of life.
It's a great reminder to work at the kindling of marital bliss.
Blessings,
Kara
Can't remember the last time I kidnapped my honey for a time of rekindling. Thank you for the gentle reminder...
ReplyDeleteI loved this, Elizabeth. After 30 years with my man I know how easy it is to lose that little spark... and what a pleasure it is to rekindle it. Excellent simple pleasures post.
ReplyDeleteSuch a simple thing yet so important in the health of a marriage. You've given me an idea...
ReplyDeleteI often wonder what love will be like when we are older, and our kids are on their own. Thanks for the reminder that with all the changes, some things never have to.
ReplyDeleteThis is just *lovely*! Even after only eight years, there is the same need to guard and protect that spark. I'm completely inspired by this post! The day sounds absolutely perfect. (Although, I probably couldn't have stopped at just one cookie!)
ReplyDeleteHave a blessed day!
Elizabeth you are so blessed not just to have such a wonderful relationship, but to know what matters and take the time for it and for God...this is a lovely remembrance...one we can all learn from...thank you Elizabeth. :-)
ReplyDeleteBeautiful! I love the way you presented your simple pleasure. Sounds like a perfect way to spend quality time together. Best wishes, Tammy
ReplyDeleteSweet................nothing like those sweet moments cuddled together ....................
ReplyDeleteOh I love this!!! Makes me want to grab lunch with my hubby today. God bless you for sharing this sweet and simple pleasure.
ReplyDeleteThat is a GREAT simple pleasure...and one to cherish always!
ReplyDeleteEvery husband (and wife) would treasure a beautiful time together like this. Thanks for reminding us to love our husbands!
ReplyDeleteWhat a beautiful post.
This is so beautiful! It truly is a wonderful reminder of what is important in our lives together.
ReplyDeleteyour quilt is gorgeous. now i'm longing for a date with my husband. :)
ReplyDeleteoh, elizabeth, this made me cry. i'm longing today for some time just with hubby. and i've been cross with him because of this. isn't that silly? i think we're going to go snowboarding together, just him and i, this weekend. thank you, for inspiring me. i love that you bought cookies and felt healthy because you'd bought them there. :) i love that you snuggled under a homemade quilt. beautiful post, as always, friend. xo
ReplyDeletethis is a great feel good simple pleasure. Really well written too
ReplyDeleteBeautifully written . . . and indeed we have to MAKE that time to enjoy what we so take for granted too often.
ReplyDeleteJoining in Imperfect Prose for the first time today. Nice to meet you! :)
This is so special......thanks for sharing :-)
ReplyDeleteI have tears....it is so rare to see a couple married as long as you....try so hard....and it humbles me and challenges me....to do what I can now to make what we have later, just as sweet and tender and friendly and purposeful as what you have. BLESS YOU abundantly today, for you have impacted me. Visiting from IP at Emily's.
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