It's Mother's Day. Happy Mother's Day to all of you wonderful mamas out there! I'm well aware that Mother's Day can be a mixed bag emotionally. For those whose mother wasn't exactly a "greeting card" sort of mother, it can be an awkward day as you search for the right words to say to a mom that wasn't everything you needed. There are those of you who have lost your mother recently. This first Mother's Day without her is a difficult one, and every Mother's Day after you will still miss her. You may be struggling with infertility, and Mother's Day is a painful reminder of your empty arms. Maybe you're single, and wondering if you're ever going to meet the right one, if you'll ever have a family of your own. Perhaps you are smack dab in the messy middle of motherhood and are feeling overwhelmed with the enormity of the responsibilities that you face each day. Even the thought of your kiddos bringing you breakfast in bed comes with dread because you know the mess that awaits you in the kitchen afterwards. This Mother's Day you may have a prodigal son or daughter wandering far from God. Guilt haunts you as you wonder if there's something you should have, could have, done differently that would have made a difference as they made their decisions. Or maybe you've lost a child through miscarriage, still birth, sickness or tragedy. Mother's Day reminds you of your horrible loss. You might have had a great mother, and your heart and home may be full of family and celebration on Mother's Day. No matter our differences on this Mother's Day, we all have something in common. We are all daughters of Eve.
By creation, and then by our new birth at salvation, we are daughters of God. But in our humanity, we are Eve's kids. As such, we come from a long line of brokenness. Sometimes, the brokenness is all we can see. It overwhelms us. If that's you, I want to cup your face in my hands, look in your eyes, and call you "Life Spring". I want to remind you that if you believe in and have received Jesus Christ as your Savior and Lord, then His Life Giving Spirit lives in you. The Holy Spirit fills your innermost being and personality. In your innermost being flows a continual spring of life giving water. You don't have to be a mother to be called Life Spring, all you have to do is to start letting that river of living water in you splash onto others. (Join me for the rest of this post on Sunday, May 8th, at Woman to Woman Ministries where each Sunday I share a bit of Sunday Soul Food!)
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such a beautiful post, Elizabeth. This will touch so many hearts. xoxo
ReplyDeleteThank you so much, Julie! Hope your Mother's Day was blessed!
DeleteSuch a beautiful and up-lifting perspective, Elizabeth! Blessings on your Mother's Day.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much, June!
DeleteElizabeth, thank you. This has been an emotional day for me and I'm just as you described, overwhelmed smack-dab in the middle of motherhood, gasping for breath in this sea of responsibility. Worse the feelings came unexpectedly and suddenly in the night so I'm slowly coming out of a sleep-deprived night, knowing it is only God's strength that will carry me through the rest of today. I appreciate your post more than you know - it's not always a Hallmark moment. Yet His Love we can always count on. Blessings to you!
ReplyDeleteCarrie, it means the world to me when something I write ministers to someone else. I'm so blessed!
DeleteSimply beautiful, Elizabeth. I hope that your Mother's Day was a good one, full of the love and appreciation that you so deserve. Mine was very nice, too. But, I love how you included the many people whose hearts and emotions are conflicted when they hear the word *mother*. May God bring comfort where that is needed, peace and freedom too.
ReplyDeleteAnd really, though He is our heavenly Father, He has the heart of a mother, too. I think of the phrase: "how often I have longed to gather your children together, as a hen gathers her chicks under her wings..."
God is nurturing, and can mend the broken places...
GOD BLESS.
And did you know El Shaddai has one meaning that is "many breasted one", so He is definitely a nurturing, nourishing God as well!
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